4.1 Sexual conduct
No sexual contact, sexual overture, or sexualized conduct between a pastor and a care recipient. No exception. The pastoral relationship is a position of spiritual authority; sexualizing it is a violation of that authority.
4.2 Financial conduct
No personal loans, investments, or business ventures between a pastor and a current care recipient. Donations to the church follow the public Give page; nothing personal flows directly to the pastor for pastoral services.
4.3 Dual relationships
Where a dual relationship is unavoidable in a small church (a member who is also a co-laborer in a ministry program), the pastor names the dual relationship out loud, documents it in the pastoral notes, and refers care to a different pastor when the conflict materially affects the work.
4.4 Time and place
Pastoral counseling takes place at the church or another agreed pastoral setting. Sessions outside that frame are scheduled, named, and documented.